Question
Do you believe success is measured by how hard you work?
Personal Insight
No, however, it's a pattern that's easy for me to fall into and will often push me past my limits. Many times I have struggled with overcommitting by saying "yes" too frequently. This often leads to burnout as projects multiply and my energy depletes. The misconception that increased output guarantees success further compounds these challenges, degrading the quality of my work and my personal wellbeing. Yet the solution emerges when I can invert my priorities - by placing my health and balance first, I can create the foundation for sustainable business growth and watch the quality of my work rise to new levels.
Tip
Take a few minutes to reflect where you are currently. If this question resonates, explore how this feels for you. No need to be self-critical or figure out a solution. Just observe.
Question
Do you have a tendency to say YES frequently?
Personal Insight
I have a tendency to say yes quickly. It can come from a place of fear or excitment:
I’m scared of losing income
I don’t want to risk losing the job
I want to grow my client base
I want to learn something new
I want to connect with more people
If I make a decision too quickly, there are many ways my life is impacted and I won’t start to feel these until days or weeks later.
Tip
Pause.
During this time, think through what the project will involve:
How much time do you have available?
What is already on your plate?
Does this align with your time and values?
Looking at these areas will help you make better decisions keeping your work and life in balance. Instead of reacting, this pause lets you choose projects where you can do your best work without burning yourself out.
Question
Have you experienced burnout?
Personal Insight
Burnout is something I've experienced many times. As a Sagittarius and fire sign, my natural optimism and energy can yield positive or negative results.
The challenge comes when commitments begin to stack up. Life doesn't pause my ego - unexpected personal matters, daily responsibilities, and unforeseen challenges continue to demand my time and energy. Before I realize it, I’m operating at full capacity with no time to recharge.
This spills into every area of my life:
I have a hard time sleeping
I procrastinate
I feel the stress in my body
I feel physically and mentally drained
The quality of my work suffers
Simple tasks become overwhelming for me
Tip
When you notice these warning signs - feeling scattered, frantic, and exhausted - it's crucial to step back and assess your situation. Becoming aware of the patterns that lead to burnout allows you to make better, more informed decisions before reaching that critical point.
Question
Do you believe more output equals quality results?
Personal Insight
Conventional wisdom often suggests that "more is better" - whether it's money, time, energy, or projects. I’ve been led to believe that taking on more work will inevitably lead to greater financial success. However, this perspective overlooks a crucial reality: Quantity often comes at the expense of quality when I exceed my capacity to manage these without having proper systems or support structures in place.
If I’m juggling five to ten projects simultaneously. I have to be honest with myself:
I’m unable to give each project my undivided attention.
My mind will often be preoccupied with the others.
My clients are not receiving the full value from what I’m providing
My relationships suffer because I don’t have time to dedicate to them
I’m tired more often because I can only do so much
Tip
Dedicate one hour each day to your most important task with zero distractions.
Before you begin:
Take 10 minutes to prepare
Clear your workspace of all clutter
Put your phone on Do Not Disturb and place it out of sight
Close all unnecessary browser tabs and email
Set a timer for 50 minutes of focused work
Question
What happens when you prioritize business success over personal wellbeing?
Personal Insight
If I’m saying to myself or others "I don't have time" meaning - for my personal health and wellbeing, what I’m failing to recognize is that I’m inevitably limiting my business's long-term success.
When I can successfully notice this pattern, I can practice making different choices:
Say no more often
Become more conscious of my time and energy
Prioritize what I take on
Create better systems and habits for myself
Tip
Think of ways that can benefit your personal health and wellbeing. Here are some suggestions:
Spend time outdoors
Dedicate time for relaxing or meditation
Put together a list of what you eat throughout the day, see if the list and what you consume is best for you
Pick a fitness activity
Write in journal
Pick one of these to focus on and commit at least 30 minutes for 5 days each week.
Start small.
Be consistent.
If you do this, you start to notice your life improving. Your drive grows stronger. Your energy, connections, and confidence are all interconnected and expand. The quality of your work improves. The true measure of lasting success is when you become the focus.